Serving as a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Concepcion, Chile from November 2013---October 2015

Monday, January 26, 2015

Controling your Emotions

I cannot think of a better title for this week's letter. So much has happened this week, I felt like I was on the roller coaster of emotions, from being mad, sad, excited, hungry, filled with hope, let down, so much, yet after it all I felt like I have controlled the ride more than it controlled me. 

It all started on Tuesday when my silly companion while I was praying kicked and broke the bench I was on, and sent me falling on my knee, it was unbelievable, for a second I was thinking of all the different ways I could inflict him pain, but out of no where I just felt that I ought to walk away and cool off. Well to this day me knee hurts, maybe it is because I keep walking on it all day for the whole day. But I could not manage being in the house the whole day.

On Wednesday we had so many lessons, it was amazing. 8 in one day, with members that came with us, when we got home I just felt so exhausted and amazed. Thursday we did not get into a single one of our planned lessons, but where able to get into 4 new houses which was fun!

Friday, we had a Kareoke night place, it went fairly bad, no one really came, and it was poorly planned. yet we still had a really good time.

Saturday, the other Elders had a baptism, one of our less actives we visited was in a crying wreck. Her husband left her and her two kids, three days before her birthday. She has no job nor money. And her only hope is a job offering that requires her to work over night, leaving her two little kids alone at home. hat was a joy to be there with her.

Sunday I fould out that morning that I had to give a talk in church, a musical number, and we had the baptism for the little girl planned. Which she ended up not getting baptized. Then latter, we fould 3 more families of gold, that called us, and told us to teach them.

It was a odd and crazy week, but enjoyable too!

To share a thought that I was thinking of while I was on the roller coaster. I would not change the things that happened if I could. Of course I wish some things had gone beter, and that there was less suffering and more joy. But then what would that aid me for. I was thinking, that through all thoughout the ride, that these times of experiences help us to make ourselves stronger. Physically, Emtionally, Mentally, Spiritually, in every manner we can become stronger. if we lose our emotional and spiritual independence, or self-reliance, we can be weakened to the hard times that come in this life. Each and everyday is another day for us to realize that we are children of God and so is everyone else around. We ought to treat them life that, and we ought to give thanks everyday for what we have. Let us ask for trials. Ask for blessings too. As we say here, Venga que lo venga, disfrutalo! 


It is that time again. Miss and love you all very much!
Elder Siaosi

We had the whole meeting ready to get her baptized, and the little girl got scared to go into the font, 
we will be doing a redo on Tuesday. Her brother is going to be doing the work.


Spam Misubi
thanks Aunt Jane!

Monday, January 19, 2015

Keep ´em coming

This past week has been filled with some sweet and oh so tender mercies. They honestly just keep on coming. 

The times is litterally gone, but I will attach something that I read that pretty much sums up the week!

It is a talk given by Featherstone called “What Are the Blessings of a Mission? Can Ye Tell?”.

I love and miss you all!

Elder Siaosi


"And any man that shall go and preach this gospel of the kingdom, and fail not to continue faithful in all things, shall not be weary in mind, neither darkened, neither in body, limb, nor joint; and a hair of his head shall not fall to the ground unnoticed. And they shall not go hungry, neither athirst.” (D&C 84:80.)
For the past two years our family has served a mission in Texas. It has been glorious and fulfilling beyond all expectations. When we first arrived, Sister Featherstone went to the Lord and said: “We don’t have much time. Please let me learn quickly so that the work will go forth.”
Later she said, “The Lord has answered my prayers. He taught me several great lessons. One of those lessons came after the first three or four weeks in the mission field. I was unable to find a few minutes each day to repair to a quiet spot. When I was home I would take about forty-five minutes in the afternoon and go out and curry down my Arabian horse. I would retreat into a world of my own for those few minutes.”
She could not find time for even a few minutes for herself in the mission field. She went to the Lord and knelt in prayer and said, “Please, Heavenly Father, help me to find some time for myself while I am here.”
And she said that just as clear as anything in this world the words came into her mind, saying, “My daughter, this is not your time; this is my time.” We have attempted to work with all our energy while we were on his time. And that work standard is compared to our work standard and not someone else’s.
Let me share with you some of the “faith” experiences of the messengers with whom we have served.
Elder and Sister Weidel wrote in their weekly letter: “Please, may we take a few moments to tell you of a spiritual experience this week. Friday Elder Curtis, who was splitting with Elder Aloi, came to work with us and afterwards we took them home. Elder Aloi invited us in to see what a real elders’ apartment looks like. He went through the back door to open the front door, and in a moment he came out beaming.
‘Elder, come and see what has been brought to us.’ There on the table was a large supply of groceries. After a while Elder Curtis told us that Elder Aloi and his companion had found a family that didn’t have anything to eat, so they took all of their own food out to them. Our hearts just about broke,” wrote Sister Weidel. “The Lord does take care of his own.”
One of the sweet, widowed sister missionaries, Lorna Call Alder, said in her weekly letter to me: “The experiences of my mission have strengthened my testimony greatly. I cannot remember when I gained a testimony, but I do remember many experiences that have enriched and built upon the foundation I have. Of the many humbling experiences I’ve had, these past eight months have brought me closer to the Lord than any other period. I’ve lived through three revolutions in Mexico, which really built my testimony. Writing lessons for the Church brings one very close to the Lord, and he did bless me with more than I can tell you. But this mission has given me more twenty-four-hour spirituality than I have ever had.
“Other very spiritual uplifts in my life were times my sons were on their missions and they asked me to read the Book of Mormon while they were gone. My husband died while my oldest son was in Chile on his mission, and I was really humbled during that trying period. I am thankful for this experience of hard work and great blessings. With humility and thanksgiving, Sister Alder.”
Some months back we had a lovely couple assigned to our mission. Before they arrived, I received a letter from their daughter. In part she said: “Dear President Featherstone, you are getting two of the most wonderful folks in the world in a few weeks to serve in your mission for eighteen months. They are just tickled pink to be serving under you. They told me they plan to do whatever you tell them to do. You enjoy mom and dad. We’ll miss them, so please take good care of them while they are there.”
Most of our missionaries come into the field because they love the Lord Jesus Christ and they desire to serve him and bring souls unto him. There are a few, however, who rationalize themselves out of a call or try to justify poor performance in the mission field—like the man who received his pay envelope and noticed that he had been shorted five dollars. He went to the paymaster and said, “You shorted me five dollars in my pay envelope this week.”
The paymaster responded, “Well, I have been expecting you. I noticed you didn’t come in complaining last week when I overpaid you five dollars.”
The fellow said, “Well, I can tolerate one mistake, but not two in a row.”
Thousands of mature couples and widowed missionaries could be called if they would simply make themselves available. Many of us understand the blessings that come when children and grandchildren kneel down at night and say, “Dear Heavenly Father, please bless grandma and grandpa, who are out in Texas on a mission.”
Sister Olsen mothered twelve children, and she supported all of her sons on missions. Now they are supporting her on a mission. I have felt the love between missionaries and their families every day of my mission.
Another fine young elder was called on a mission. At the time, he drove cars across the country for a foreign car company. When his boss, who was not LDS, heard he was going to be gone for two years to serve a mission, he said, “If you will stay at home and work for me, I will give you a $28,000 Ferrari.” Elder Grannis completed his mission a month ago as a presiding zone leader.
Another elder entered the mission just after I arrived in San Antonio. He came from a large family. The father found that he needed to pick up a part-time job to help support his son. This was not quite enough, and so the sweet mother went to work in the school lunch program so that she could be home when her children were home. Even with this additional money, the elder fell a little further behind each month. A choice friend occasionally gives me several $100 bills to share where they are needed. When I interviewed this elder, I asked him how he was doing financially. His eyes clouded up, and he said was really trying, but his folks weren’t sending him quite enough. He said, “President, I haven’t been wasting. I haven’t eaten anything for three days, trying to cut back.” Then he said, “Even my little sister is helping. She received a one-dollar bill for her birthday, and she put it in an envelope and sent it to me because she thought I needed it more than she did.” Then he wept openly. I reached into my shirt pocket, and extracted two crisp $100 bills, and said, “A choice friend of mine asked me to give these to you.” He put his head down in his hands and was overcome.
Elder Daniel Gifford was promised in his patriarchal blessing that he would serve closely with a General Authority while he was on his mission. He wondered how this would be when he received his mission call to Texas, where the mission president had only served two or three months. While he was in the Missionary Training Center listening to the final session of October general conference, he heard President Tanner announce that the next speaker would be Elder Vaughn J. Featherstone, a member of the First Quorum of the Seventy and newly called president of the Texas San Antonio Mission. When Elder Gifford was later called to be an assistant to the president, he shared his patriarchal blessing promise with us. Do you think he has any question about whose work this is?
One elder who was transferred from another mission wanted to go home. He knew his parents and bishop wanted him to stay and complete his mission. In one of the many interviews we had, he said that five previous elders in his ward had abandoned their missions and had returned home early. I thought what a great disservice the first elder did to the other young men who followed his poor example. I made a solemn vow that this elder would not go home until his mission was completed successfully. Every week for thirteen to fifteen weeks he would write in his letter to the president all the reasons he should be released from his mission. Each week I wrote a letter of response.
After all these weeks I received a letter which appeared the same as the others—until I got to the P.S. He said, “President, you are winning and you know it.” I sat in my office, and tears filled my eyes.
Vince Lombardi said, “The harder you fight for something, the harder it is to surrender.” This elder completed his mission as a great presiding zone leader. He has a great warmth and a great talent to teach; he loves and cares for people; and he is extremely spiritual. He returned home with an honorable release from a very successful mission, married a beautiful girl in the temple, and now they live near the temple where they visit regularly. This elder set a great example for all prospective missionaries from his ward.
Elder Sheffield has been under the knife eleven times in major surgery and many more times in surgery lasting less than an hour. The greatest desire of his life was that the surgery would make him acceptable for a mission. A year before he entered the mission field, he had his final operation. Since he has been on his mission, he has averaged seventy to eighty hours a week in proselyting. He is greatly loved by all.
He has been a great blessing to missionaries who thought they had problems. In one interview his companion told me that Elder Sheffield’s shoulder separates and falls out of place quite often. When this happens he is in severe pain. It happens most often during the night. When I interviewed Elder Sheffield, I suggested that we put him in a local hospital here and have the doctors do what needed to be done to correct this problem. He looked me in the eye, and with a sternness seldom seen he said, “President, I have spent most of my life in hospitals, and when I complete my mission I am returning to several more major surgical operations. I promised the Lord that if he would let me serve a mission, I would not spend one day in the hospital during the two years no matter how sick I was or how much I suffered.”
What are the blessings of a mission? “Can ye tell?” (Alma 26:2).
Maybe Brother and Sister William Keith Clark can. “Dear President Featherstone,” they wrote, “we were happy to receive your letter. I’m sure we love you already.” (Bless them, they didn’t even know me, and yet they could love me.) They continued: “We are not too young anymore. William Keith Clark is eighty-one years old. He has been a bishop’s counselor, a bishop, and a patriarch for thirty-one years. I, Ellen Clark, am seventy-six years of age. I have been a music director and a teacher in all the organizations of the Church, ward and stake. We have had an abundant life and love to teach the gospel. We have ten children, all married in the temple and working in the Church. We had our reunion recently—fifty-six grandchildren and twenty-six great-grandchildren! This is four missions for my husband and three for me. Our happiest moments are teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ.” Every missionary is a story of love and sacrifice. I love them so much. Their great devotion to the cause, their love for the Lord, and their willingness to serve him, whose work this is, will bless their lives and their posterity forever.
You see, my beloved brothers and sisters, every soul should have the privilege of hearing about the restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Those who respond to the call to be a missionary shall “not be weary in mind, neither darkened, neither in body, limb, nor joint; and a hair of [their] head[s] shall not fall to the ground unnoticed. And they shall not go hungry, neither athirst.” (D&C 84:80.)
We must seek out every soul and do it with the pure love of Christ.
We must not judge the people. We do not know who God has prepared, but we do know as the Prophet Joseph Smith stated: “The Standard of Truth has been erected; no unhallowed hand can stop the work from progressing; persecutions may rage, mobs may combine, armies may assemble, calumny may defame, but the truth of God will go forth boldly, nobly, and independent, till it has penetrated every continent, visited every clime, swept every country, and sounded in every ear, till the purposes of God shall be accomplished, and the Great Jehovah shall say the work is done” (History of the Church, 4:540).
God bless that all—all—who may be able to serve will make themselves available for a mission call. The blessings are sure, I know, in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen."

Monday, January 12, 2015

The Lord's Way

So many things happen when you are in the service of the Lord, that sometimes you have not clue what to do with yourself. We are packed to the hour with tasks to do, people to teach. We give pre-missionary classes to the young men and take them out with us, we help the Elder Quorem with their visits, we talk with everyone, teach so many, and have tons of people that want to get baptized. But sometimes we just can never get it all done, we miss important appointments, or miss an opportunity to give service, or who knows what. Sometimes we wonder if what we are doing is right. We had 8 people that had a date to get baptized, only one came to church. Some got sick, others flaked, who knows right. So in the means of getting good numbers, and feeling satisfied with where we are, the South America 70 de Area decides it is time to step it up.

They almost dropped all the numbers we take, how many lessons with have, people we talk to, references, and now, they have given us free agency. A little scary due to its oddness, but no we have the ability now, to tink about what we can do to raise the asistance in church and the testimonies of the people. We will be changing the way we work, think, plan, sleep. It should be fun, we shall see. 

Just goes to show, that though the Lord never changes, he has many ways. This next step in the work is a little bold, but we are going to find what will change the hearts of the people. I cannot believe how the time flies here, we jsut keep working till the two years ends. Feels strange to be 21, but then again, feels the same. Miss you all at home, hope for the best. Do not get caught up in the past, think about the changes that can be made for the better.

 Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
-Albert Einstein

Love you all,
Elder Siaosi

Thursday, January 8, 2015

Semana De La Fiesta

So many fiestas have been happening this week, that sometimes I forget I am a misionary because everything seems so active, loud, and exciting!

I am going to forward what I sent to my President since I feel like it call be applied to everyone.

President,
This week went fairly well, nothing much changed with the cambios, and the work is still in full drive. On Sunday we had a miracle that I would like to share. It was something so small, yet so amazing. Elder Tafur and I fasted to help us find more new that would accept fecha. We finished, ate, lunch, planned and left to work. I had almost completely forgotten my fast, It was behind me. We left the house, on our way to our first appointment, we talked to a woman gardening. She invited us in. Within 15 minutes, we left. Having taught them about God, his plan for us, and baptism, we had gained 2 new people to teach, we accpeted baptism for the 25, the are excited to go to church this sunday, and asked us to come back on Tuesday. I could not believe it. We had a renewed fire, I love the work. I will leave you with this. As missionaries we talk to everyone right. But sometimes, I feel like we, and especially I, talk to everyone, but we do not have that vision of everyone in white. It is a lack of hope I think, diligence without that hope that everyone we talk to will want to get baptized. I think that if I change my mindset, I will enjoy the mission much more. I will try it out and tell you how it goes. ok.

As children of God we have many great blessings waiting for us, and yet sometimes we forget that they are there. For example, I did not realize nor expect to recieve the many miracles that come from being in the mission. If we always have the vision that we shall reap what we sow, we should have a grand hope for the future!

Love you all family!
Elder Siaosi

Pictures of my trainer and me


Christmas Eve Dinner

the famous Elder Watts

Quesodillas

Elder Skelton and Elder Gillespie in our first night in a year of Pizza from Papa Johns!


Pic with Elder Ainge and Elder Copling

New Years Dinner

a service project